Hello dear readers. It took me 3 years to decide to write about love. I think that after this period I have read a lot about the subject. This means that my view about love has changed a lot. From my own experience I would say to be impossible to really get deep into such a subject unless you have a breakthrough in your life. People who know me can clearly remind when that happen to me and how it affected me. That actually happened because I was completely blind to understand what love is. Love for me now is freedom. I believe that people only can experience real love in their lives as soon as they realize that love is about let it go. When I really got to understand it I could finally experience myself. In all areas of my life. That is fantastic to realize how plastic our beliefs are. Hopefully all people can redesign their own set of values. The realization of not charging anyone for your own self love experience is what makes me to believe that we should always start to love ourselves. That is the first step towards the experience of love which really makes sense. When you do not put your happiness, expectations ir even your feelings in to others lap, this puts you in total control of your life ship. You are the captain of your own destiny by choosing the right mindsets to get what you want. The mindset of true love is to adapt your self love to others love and blend them like a good tasty drink. In the end you must be able to taste yourself and the other people on the same sip. That means you should never lose who you are for anything or anyone. Being authentic to your own set of values delivers the most valuable love you can give to others. It does not matter how silly or stupid it may be interpreted by others, but to live this kind of thing you must be yourself. I wrote the other day that the purpose of life is to find out who you are. Love is putting this person with no mask at all to interact with others. There is no other formula in my view to achieve the fullfillment of a love which in the end is really worth to be experienced and shared. I now share my love with many different people. And with each of them I show a different aspect of my authentic self. The self is your true nature subtracted from the ego. The death of the ego now makes sense to me, and I now understand that by killing the ego you make your physical body to function at its best. The way you digest your feelings will determine how much sucess you are going to get in the end. It is a tuff task for most people to decide the way they are going to take in life. True love, meaning the love that comes from your true spirit which is usually hidden behind many social impositions is what will help us to be able to reach the stage which I call now higher love. It means that you should connect to people that you trust, who can also show their own nature and in a way that you have freedom to come and go at your own will. I think that is very hard to find such fit nowadays,because society rules and dogmas blind us from seeing the most valuable things in life. Small moments have turned the most significant to me. For me it translates my belief that the more we do what we really are and feel, and not what society expects from us , the better we will be able to make true love rise from our true soul. I have read many different authors, from physicists to doctors and all of them do their own turnaround to conclude always this: if you are not honest to yourself, you will never be with your eyes awake enough to understand why you are here, and how to get to love people and life as it is. I foresee a world where the mechanisms of human functioning will be deeply challenged. A time, where the real values of being a human will be revealed by our own awakening to the fact that there is much more out there and within us to be discovered and developed. The will of evolution will be in my opinion the secret key to the higher love we all deserve to have in life. In all aspects, through body, mind and spirit. Those who will succed in this new paradigm are those who can awake to consider the invisible to be true. Our senses are far simplistic to comprehend the complexity of love as it really is and to how far it can really get. Our brain is undoubtly able to go further in this perspective, but we must actively train it to reach a higher level of awareness. We are in control of aproximately 5% of our acts. The rest is pretty much happening in auto pilot. The secret is to flip this proportion, and bring our control over the use of the brain close to 100%. Not easy, but by doing so, our biology works better, our senses reach another possibilites, and the love which I believe exists can be finally brougth to our conscious understanding. Wish all a great weekend and that this spark can lead you to a new way of looking to your own life and love.
